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About us

Hi, we’re the Nelsons.

We’re Lanette and Shaun, adoptive parents of four kids. Every one of their adoptions is open, with regular visits with their birth families. Our kids would tell you they have more than 16 grandparents who love them.

We started this podcast in April 2021 to answer the questions friends kept asking us about open adoption. It quickly became something bigger: a place to listen to adoptees, birth parents, adoptive families and professionals, and to keep learning how to do better. At this time, we’re focused on interviewing adoptees and birth parents.

Lanette and Shaun Nelson smiling together on a mountain hike
Our mission

This podcast is about connecting. It’s about growing. It’s about stretching. The Open Adoption Project is a community dedicated to listening and learning, and building relationships based on healthy respect and communication.

Open communicationHonest conversation between adoptees, birth families and adoptive families.
Lasting relationshipsSupporting open adoption relationships that hold up for a lifetime, not just at placement.
Ethical practicePromoting adoption practices that put children’s needs first.

Share your story on the show

We especially want to hear from adoptees and birth parents. Every story is different, and every one helps someone listening feel less alone. Fill out a short application and we’ll follow up within a week.

Apply to be a guest

Invite us to speak

We occasionally speak at trainings and conferences, including for Utah Foster Care and Utah Adoption Specialists. We’ve also organized and moderated an adoptee panel for a statewide symposium. Reach out to ask about scheduling.

Ask about speaking

Contact us

Episode requests, questions, guest ideas, speaking requests or just a hello. We read every message.

Email openadoptionproject@gmail.com